Hi, When things started to change for me, it wasn’t dramatic. There was no big launch. No sudden spike in income. No moment where everything magically clicked. What changed first was something much quieter. The pressure started to lift. I remember noticing it in small ways. I stopped checking my phone constantly. I stopped doing mental maths every Sunday night. Time off stopped feeling like something I had to earn. Nothing about my work ethic changed. I still cared deeply about my clients. I...

Hi, After that period I told you about in my last email, there was one belief that kept me stuck longer than anything else. It sounds responsible on the surface. Even noble. It’s this: “Once I’m busy enough, things will work themselves out.” I genuinely believed that. If I just coached more hours… If I just filled the diary… If I just said yes a bit longer… Then the money stress would ease. Then I could take my foot off the gas. Then life would open up again. So I doubled down on being busy....

Hi There was a period in my career where my diary was full — and my life was empty. Sessions from early morning to late evening. A “successful” week on paper. And still… scraping by. I remember coming home late, tired, and mentally fried — while my partner had already eaten, already watched TV, already gone to bed. Not angry. Just used to it. I told myself it was temporary. That this was the price you pay early on. That once I had enough clients, things would settle. They didn’t. What made it...